Questions she already has the answer to close by themselves: if you answered earlier in the conversation, she does not ask again.
Seen, or later for all of them: mark a question as seen, or put the whole stack off in one tap.
New chat opens a clean chat, not your conversation with her.
Two or more steps fold into one line you can open.
One long-press on her screens, not two.
Watches and loops do their work in the background and only wake her when there is news.